NATIONAL KISS AND MAKE UP DAY

 

NATIONAL KISS AND MAKE UP DAY

National Kiss and Make Up Day is observed annually on August 25 to encourage people to let go of grudges, end arguments, and reconcile with loved ones,THIS National Day gives us a chance to make amends. Each one of us has had a fight with a loved one at some point in our lives. Whether it is between you and a friend, family member, neighbor or co-worker after time has passed, do you remember the cause? Who was even at fault? Do you want the discord to go on any longer? That is probably the most important question of all.

Offering an apology, or simply just breaking the silence can be enough to begin the healing. Strive to compromise. Even in a no-win situation, if the relationship is worth preserving agreeing to disagree may be the only resolution. When we talk through issues calmly after a serious dispute, we often find both sides misunderstood the other person. Looking back, hopefully, we can find something to laugh about and repair the relationship.Kissing prompts your brain to release a happy elixir of feel-good chemicals like serotonin, dopamine, and oxytocin. This isn't only important for your happiness, it may also help to strengthen your relationship.You can also seek forgiveness in the form of some flowers and a “sorry” card. If you have done something wrong and you want to build bridges, a bunch of flowers is a good place to start. Consider the meaning of the flowers when purchasing to ensure they are appropriate and that the symbolization is relevant. Allium plants are a good example. They boast a beautiful appearance. In fact, they have often been used by famous artists, such as Rembrandt and Baker, who have highlighted their magnificence in their creations.

 

They also boast a lovely meaning, as they symbolise humility and patience, as well as unity, with this stemming from the fact that the plant comes from a single bulb. When you consider the attractiveness of this plant and the beautiful meaning that is associated with it, it is not difficult to see why there ar different uses for this plant, and why they are often included in flower arrangement for a loved one. You can either go for fresh or artificial flowers.Artificial flowers have progressed to the point where it is virtually impossible to tell the difference between these blooms and fresh flowers. Artificial flowers boast many benefits as well, as they are easy to look after, they last forever, and they are cost efficient too. The fact that they last forever can also be symbolic of your relationship. Little touches like this can make a big difference.

Of course, buying a gift is not appropriate for all situations and you may not even feel like you’re the one in the wrong. Also, you may not want the apology to be dressed up with flowers and bravado. Everyone is different. Instead, simply breaking the silence can be enough for the healing process to begin.Even if you feel like you have not done anything wrong, now is not the time to be stubborn. It is the time for compromise. It could be that you have acted perfectly fine, but that the other person feels like they have been wronged. It is important to understand their thoughts and feelings, even if you do not agree with them.A lot of people think that apologizing makes them weak. However, it is important to view this as a strength, rather than a weakness. When you blame someone else or you misdirect someone, your apology becomes diluted. The mature thing to do in a situation is to apologize and be the bigger person. You should also make sure your apology is sincere and genuine.A half-hearted apology can be worse than not giving an apology at all, as it can feel like you’re doing it only because you feel like you have to. Of course, we are not implying that you should say sorry in every situation, but it is definitely something to think about if you feel a bit torn between apologizing and not apologizing at the moment.

Prof. John Kurakar